Late Diagnosis, Fewer Cloudy Days & Choosing Agency With ADHD with IngerShaye Colzie [Part 2]
The ADHD Social PlaybookShow Notes
What if you had known about your ADHD diagnosis sooner? In part two, Caroline and psychotherapist and ADHD coach IngerShaye Colzie talk about late diagnosis, grief, and why the goal is not a perfect past, it is a better tomorrow. We unpack masking by choice, how diagnosis helps you string together more good days, and practical steps to move from regret to agency. If you missed part one, watch that first, then come back here.
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