How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Stop Running Out of Things to Say: 8 Topics that Ignite Flirty Conversations with Women

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Show Notes

Nothing kills a date faster than running out of things to say—and the awkward silence that follows. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett breaks down 8 great first-date topics that lead to free-flowing, flirty conversations. You’ll learn how to keep conversations going, banter with charm, and get a lot more second dates.

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