The Almost Empty Nest—Letting Go, Redefined: Parenting Teens and Finding Yourself Again—with Small Jar Coach

“I Should Have More to Show for My Life”—Thoughts Moms Parenting Teens and Adult Kids Are Ashamed They Think | Ep. 300

The Almost Empty Nest—Letting Go, Redefined: Parenting Teens and Finding Yourself Again—with Small Jar Coach

Show Notes

What happens when your kids are getting older, life finally gives you a little more room to breathe…and instead of feeling grateful, you start wondering whether you’ve done enough with your life?

The empty nest and parenting teens years can bring up some surprisingly big questions about motherhood, identity, finding purpose, and what we have to “show” for all the years behind us. In this episode, I’m exploring why our brains keep moving the definition of enough, why we tend to discount so much of what actually counts, and why criticizing ourselves doesn't create what we want next.

I invite you to explore how to measuring your life against an invisible and moving finish line. You can still want more without making your life today wrong.

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❓ Have questions or want to share your feedback? I'd love to hear from you! You can email me at [email protected].

This empowering podcast offers life coaching for moms and parenting support for midlife mothers raising teens as they approach the empty nest, teaching them how to let go of control, stop overthinking, and shift their mindset, while also helping them set boundaries, improve communication, reduce anxiety, release mom guilt, and find purpose in the evolving journey of parenting teens and motherhood.

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