
Episode 337: To Me. For Me. Through Me - Money, Consciousness, and the Matrix
The Alpha Male Coach PodcastShow Notes
In this episode, we dive deeper into the spiritual evolution that shapes our human experience - and we use one of the most charged pillars of the Matrix to explore it: money. Last week, we introduced the three spiritual phases every human is moving through: life is happening to me, life is happening for me, and life is happening through me. Today, we ground those concepts into the energetic reality of wealth, value, and the monetary system.
We begin with the foundational state nearly all humans enter by default - the victim consciousness. This is the “to me” stage. In this mindset, money appears scarce, threatening, and overwhelming. It sounds like:
“Money is evil.” “The system is corrupt.” “I can’t get ahead.” “Life is unfair.” “I work and work and have nothing to show.”
This perspective fuels fear, comparison, resentment, and existential dread about the future. The glass is always half-empty; there is never enough; life feels oppressive. We are born into this phase - spiritually and biologically - and many never move beyond it. Yet every moment of financial stress, scarcity, and fear is not punishment but feedback, calling us into awareness and growth.
From here, we transition into the second phase: life is happening for me. This is the shift from victim to victor — not because circumstances change first, but because perception changes. The external remains neutral, like a glass of water sitting on a table. The illusion dissolves, and we realize we are not powerless. We begin to choose our thinking, choose our energy, and choose how we relate to money.
Thoughts like “Money is opportunity,” “I get to use money,” and “Money allows me to serve and create” generate ease, empowerment, and abundance. The glass becomes half-full. With this expanded consciousness, actions shift, energy rises, and results follow. Money becomes a tool - not an enemy - and life begins to respond.
Finally, we explore the rarest phase - the “through me” state of consciousness. At this level, the internal desire is no longer to receive but to share. This is the energetic dimension where money, as we know it, loses relevance. It dissolves naturally - not through force or rebellion, but by humanity evolving beyond the need for a medium of exchange built on debt and lack.
Here, giving becomes the source of fulfillment. Each person contributes according to their unique gifts, and receives according to their true needs - not by mandate or ideology, but through a collective consciousness rooted in abundance instead of scarcity. This is not utopian fantasy; it is a future state of awareness, revealed as we individually and collectively transcend our conditioning.
Right now, money remains part of our spiritual curriculum - a neutral tool designed to help us evolve. In this episode, you will learn how to shift your financial identity, transform your relationship with money, dissolve scarcity patterns, and take your next step in conscious expansion.
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