Empowering Exceptional Minds

Is It ADHD, Autism, or Perimenopause? The Overlooked Connection Every Woman Should Know

Empowering Exceptional Minds

Show Notes

What happens when the symptoms of perimenopause collide with neurodivergence? Many women find themselves struggling with brain fog, overwhelm, forgetfulness, emotional sensitivity, anxiety, sensory challenges, and executive function difficulties—often wondering, "What's happening to me?" In this episode of Empowering Exceptional Minds, host Maayan Glaser-Koren sits down with Kara Cruz, MA, LMFT, PMH-C, EMDRIA Certified Therapist™, to explore the often-overlooked intersection of neurodiversity and perimenopause. Together, they discuss how hormonal changes can impact ADHD, autism, executive functioning, sensory processing, emotional regulation, and overall well-being. Whether you're navigating perimenopause yourself, supporting a loved one, or working with neurodivergent individuals, this episode provides valuable insights, validation, and practical strategies. In this episode, we discuss: Why ADHD and autistic traits may become more noticeable during perimenopause The impact of hormonal fluctuations on attention, memory, and emotional regulation Brain fog, executive dysfunction, and sensory overwhelm Anxiety, mood changes, and self-compassion during midlife Strategies for managing symptoms and advocating for support The importance of understanding the unique experiences of neurodivergent women

About Our Guest: Kara Cruz, MA, LMFT, PMH-C, EMDRIA Certified Therapist™ is a licensed therapist specializing in women's mental health, perinatal mental health, trauma treatment, and neurodivergent-affirming care. She brings a compassionate and evidence-based perspective to helping women navigate major life transitions, including perimenopause and menopause.

Please Note: We experienced unexpected technical difficulties during this recording, and the host's audio may sound somewhat muffled at times. We sincerely apologize for the inconvenience and appreciate your understanding. Despite the audio challenges, this conversation is packed with valuable information and insights that we hope you'll find https://www.karacruz.com/ https://www.acog.org/ https://menopause.org/ Books: The Female Brain by Dr. Louann Brizendine M.D. The Galveston Diet by Dr. Mary Claire Haver, M.D. The Hormone Shift: Balance Your Body and Thrive Through Midlife and Menopause by Tasneem Bhatia, M.D. Mayo Clinic The Menopause Solution by Stephanie S. Faubion, M.D. The Menopause Manifesto by Dr. Jen Gunter, M.D. The Upgrade: How the Female Brain Gets Stronger and Better in Midlife and Beyond by Dr. Louann Brizendine M.D. What Fresh Hell is This by Heather Corinna You Are Not Broken by Dr. Kelly Casperson, M.D.

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