Perimenopause WTF?

Trauma and Perimenopause with Dr. Laura Anderson & Dr. Sulla Windgassen

Perimenopause WTF?

Show Notes

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Welcome to Perimenopause WTF! Today we are joined by two experts in the field of trauma and mental health to discuss “Trauma and Perimenopause.” Dr. Laura Anderson (Psychotherapist) & Dr. Sulla Windgassen (Psychologist) answer questions posed by the community as they relate to topics such as: PTSD, past trauma and its effect on relationships during perimenopause, and, the continuation of intense trauma after menopause. Listen in as they break down what trauma is, and how hormones factor in, as well as what cutting edge research and treatments are being implemented at the moment.

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About guest Dr. Laura Anderson:

Dr. Laura Anderson is a psychotherapist, trauma resolution coach and consultant, writer and educator specializing in complex and developmental trauma, dynamics of power and control and religious trauma based out of Nashville, TN.

Learn more about Dr. Sula Windgassen:

Website: https://drlauraeanderson.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraeanderson/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drlauraeanderson

About Dr. Sulla Windgassen

Dr Sula Windgassen is a Health Psychologist, CBT Therapist & EMDR Therapist.

She is the director of Mind Body Blossom and practicing clinician and researcher. Sula has completed extensive psychological training including a Bachelor's Degree, a Masters Degree, a Doctorate, Doctoral Qualification in Health Psychology and a Postgraduate Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

Sula's PhD and post-doctoral research explored psychological approaches to gut disorders including irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and inflammatory bowel disease (IBD). This work has led to extensive clinical practice delivering psychological support to people with gut disorders and consulting with companies on psychological approaches to gut health.

Learn more about Dr. Sulla Windgassen

Website: https://www.mindbodyblossomhealth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_health_psychologist_/?hl=en

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/sulawindgassen

Disclaimer: This is not medical advice, it does not take the place of medical advice from your physician, and is not intended to treat or cure any disease. Patients should see a qualified medical provider for assessment an

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