Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor

Episode 163: Anya Lautenbach

Spinning Plates with Sophie Ellis-Bextor

Show Notes

Anya Lautenbach is a gardener who I discovered on Instagram as anya_thegarden_fairy. From Poland originally, Anya moved to to the UK 17 years ago and has two boys aged 12 and 14.

We talked about the grief which Anya has experienced because of her sister having two sons with a rare genetic condition which turned out to be terminal.

Anya explained how every time she had bad news from home, she turned that into another garden border and has ended up creating a beautiful garden out of her ocean of grief.

We also talked about her ADHD diagnosis which came soon after her son’s diagnosis, and how gardening helps her to escape the overwhelming busyness of her mind.

Spinning Plates is presented by Sophie Ellis-Bextor, produced by Claire Jones and post-production by Richard Jones. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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