The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Should all sissies take a pussy free pledge?

The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Show Notes

What happens when a Femdom makes a sissy give up the last vestiges of masculine sexual entitlement? Today’s episode is all about the concept of taking a pussy free pledge for your Mistress.

First, we’ll talk about the definition of being pussy free. The term pussy free pledge seems to originate from Reddit threads. Today, it’s a popular feminization protocol when used for sissy training and humiliation.

Topics covered include: Is this the natural evolution of chastity and cock control, or something far more psychologically binding? Does a pussy free pledge deepen sissy submission and obedience to the control of Goddess? Is this performative kink or genuine surrender? Does giving up the expectation of access to pussy mean no to eating pussy? What about eating cum from her pussy - especially if you are a sissy cuckold husband? How does a Mistress handle designing a timeframe for being pussy free?

Ms Olivia asks, if this is a way of formally retiring a skill the other person was “never good at anyway” when trying to be a heterosexual male?

This episode is full of real-life Domme stories as the ladies discuss the nuances of this emasculating pledge.

Have you ever taken a pussy free pledge or are you now curious about this?

Get it touch: DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

[email protected] Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

[email protected] Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

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