Getting Better with Jonathan Van Ness

Rewind: Why You Lash Out — The Psychology Behind Big Reactions (with Dr. Nicole LePera)

Getting Better with Jonathan Van Ness

Show Notes

Ever wondered why we lash out, shut down, or spiral emotionally, even when we don't want to? On this episode of Getting Better, JVN teams up with psychologist and author Dr. Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist) to dive deep into inner child healing, parts work, and the shocking truth behind our nervous system's reactions. Dr. LePera reveals how our past molds our emotions, why connection is our biological imperative, and how to become your own adult parent. JVN opens up about their own "parts," and together they dissect black-and-white thinking, fear, and emotional overwhelm, uncovering real-world strategies to break free! If healing has ever felt messy, scary, or downright nonlinear, this conversation may help you truly "getting better." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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