Shmiras Halashon Daily

Daily Chafetz Chaim – Day 263

Shmiras Halashon Daily

Show Notes

Should you push a friend into a partnership or shidduch you'd never touch yourself?

Rabbi Klapper closes with the opposite case: may you encourage someone to enter a partnership or a shidduch? It depends on what you know. If you're aware of something negative — something that would make you refuse the partnership or shidduch for yourself — then you should not encourage the interested party to get involved. There are situations where you may not tell someone about a shidduch already made; but actively urging a person into something you yourself would avoid because you know it's damaging is certainly something you must not do for anyone else.

That completes our journey through hilchos rechilus — thank you for learning along.

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