Show Notes
Send us Fan Mail Welcome to the final episode of the How to Break a Trauma Bond series. After learning how to recognize a trauma bond, decide whether to stay or leave, grieve what you thought you had, stop waiting for the apology, and become your own fixer, there is one final step: Rebuilding your sense of safety. One of the greatest harms caused by trauma bonds is that they distort your understanding of what safety actually feels like. Over time, chaos can feel familiar, hypervigilance can f...
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