The Skillful Podcast

#58: Applying DEAR MAN in Difficult Interactions

The Skillful Podcast

Show Notes

Once you have grasp of the DEAR MAN skill, you might find yourself getting stuck when you try to use it in difficult interactions. Maybe the other person pushes back, tries to change the subject, or refuses to engage fairly.

While we can't force anyone to do anything, we can continue to use our skills to stay as effective as possible during heated moments.

For full show notes, visit our website: https://bayareadbtcc.com/podcast DBT Skills Discussed DEAR MAN

Introduction to Distress Tolerance & the STOP skill

The "What" Skills of Mindfulness

The "How" Skills of Mindfulness

Ask us a Question We'd love to hear from you! Where are you getting stuck with your skills application? Ask us a question for the chance to have it answered on the podcast. Submit your question here. Please note that questions, and this podcast in general, are not a substitute for individual mental health treatment.

More from The Skillful Podcast

Feb 1, 2024

Are you a therapist who wants the experience of being in a DBT skills group yourself? Are you curious about how the skills can help YOU?

Jan 17, 2024

What DBT skill do you use when your emotion fits the facts? One option is to work on changing the facts. The skill of Problem Solving offers a structured framework to help you change situations that cause painful emotions.

Dec 14, 2023

Today's episode discusses the DBT skill of Willingness.

Jul 7, 2023

Once you have a grasp of the change-oriented skills in DBT (such as Check the Facts, Opposite Action, and Problem Solving) it can be hard to figure out which one to use.

Jun 8, 2023

Shame is one of the most painful emotions we can experience.

See all episodes →