Show Notes
What does happiness mean and why do negative emotions matter more than we think?
In this thoughtful conversation, Gretchen Rubin, bestselling author of The Happiness Project and host of the Happier podcast, joins Steven Burns to explore what it really means to live a meaningful life. Rather than chasing constant positivity, Gretchen makes the case for embracing the full emotional spectrum - sadness, envy, regret, and melancholy - as essential tools for insight, growth, and wisdom.
If you’ve ever wondered why you’re not happy all the time, this episode is for you.
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