It’s a Girl Thing

Red Flag Blindness: Married Men, Mystery Jobs & Manky Mattresses

It’s a Girl Thing

Show Notes

Hey bestiessss 🚩 This week’s episode is all about the BIGGEST red flags we’ve ever ignored… and trust us, some of these are absolutely unhinged. We’re talking secret wives, men with “mystery jobs” who apparently work in “business”, and one very hot man with a mattress on the floor and a bathroom that should’ve come with a hazmat suit. Why do we ignore the warning signs when someone’s fit? Why do we convince ourselves it’s probably fine when deep down we know it’s absolutely not? We’re unpacking the chaos and sharing some of your wildest stories of the red flags you saw… and still ran straight past 🚩😂 ALSO besties… we’ve officially launched our Patreon 🎉 where we’re spilling even more tea. Over there, we’re doing weekly chats about the new season of MAFS, all the couples, the drama, and the absolute madness that doesn’t make it into the main chat. So if you want the extra gossip and chaos, come join us over there 👀 https://www.patreon.com/cw/ItsAGirlThingSleepoverClub Grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it… Love you byeeeee xoxoxo

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