The God's Daughtrs Podcast by Porsha RoShelle

Pray for your Enemies

The God's Daughtrs Podcast by Porsha RoShelle

Show Notes

Have you ever been hurt by someone and felt God nudging you to pray for them? This episode is for the woman in the middle of that hard, holy obedience.We’re getting real about what it actually looks like to pray for your enemies — not from a place of weakness, but from a posture of surrender, healing, and spiritual authority. We talk about releasing offense, loving people from a distance, and setting godly boundaries without guilt.Here’s the truth nobody talks about: forgiveness does not require reconciliation — especially without genuine repentance. We’ll walk through how to see difficult people through God’s eyes with both compassion AND discernment, and how to recognize the real enemy behind hurtful people (Ephesians 6).If you’re in a season of betrayal, broken relationships, or carrying weight from people who’ve wronged you — this episode will help you move from hurt to healing with grace, wisdom, and peace that passes understanding.

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