Unconditioning Love

Abi's Story - Legalism To Love

Unconditioning Love

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Send us Fan Mail Abi grew up in an unnamed, exclusive home church sect defined by its traveling "workers," raised with a little more room than most girls in the meetings thanks to her mother's quiet nonconformity, right down to the day a sister worker tried to confiscate her Harry Potter book and her mom told the woman plainly: I decide what my kid reads, not you. As an adult, Abi started testing the legalism she'd inherited, keeping wine and a TV in the house, cutting and dyeing her hair, w...

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