Out Of Our Minds

#108 - Trying vs Knowing: The Subtle Frequency Shift That Changes Everything

Out Of Our Minds

Show Notes

What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re doing something wrong—but because you’re trying to do it right? In this episode, we explore the energetic distinction between trying and knowing—and how this subtle yet potent shift changes everything when it comes to manifestation, alignment, and living your soul’s true vision. You’ll learn how “trying” stems from uncertainty, control, and mental loops that keep us chasing what we already are… while “knowing” is a full-body experience of truth that magnetizes our desired reality to us. This isn’t about efforting your way into success—it’s about remembering who you already are and allowing reality to bend to your frequency. Key Highlights: The energetic difference between trying and knowing in manifestation How belief systems create energetic feedback loops shaping your reality Channelled insights on knowing as a full mind-body-spirit sensation Quantum reality explained: multiple realities, expanded consciousness, and aligning with your highest timeline Personal reflections on holding visions and trusting the unfolding process The power of becoming the being who embodies your vision before it manifests physically Navigating challenges as sacred shedings and opportunities for growth Practical tips for tapping into knowing energy in daily life and creative work

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