The Neurodivergent Woman

Being Childfree

The Neurodivergent Woman

Show Notes

We kick off Season 6 with a chunky episode about being childfree, and share our personal experiences on this topic. This was a really meaningful and important topic for us – we hope you find it useful!

We cover: The cultural and normative context of motherhood Understanding your desire for or against motherhood and what are the complexities and nuances in this. Ruby Warrington’s ‘Motherhood Spectrum’ Reasons why you might not want to be a mother – both in general and factors specific to neurodivergent folk. Finding meaning in life outside motherhood and exploring alternate archetypes for different stages of life.

Things we mentioned plus other good resources: Women without Kids – by Ruby Warrington, the book and podcast Goddesses in Everywoman; Powerful Archetypes in Women’s Lives – by Jean Shinoda Bolen Awakening Shakti – by Sally Kempton Women Who Run with the Wolves; Contacting the power of the Wild Woman – by Clarissa Pinkola Estes The Wife Drought – by Annabel Crabbe Regretting Motherhood; A Study – Orna Donath

Our astute listeners might notice the cacophony of crows occasionally kicking off in the background of this ep – imagine yourself in the Australian bush if it helps!!

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