It's Always Been You.

What Your Love Life Reveals About Your Self-Awareness

It's Always Been You.

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In today’s episode, “What Your Love Life Reveals About Your Self-Awareness,” I’m talking about something I think so many women think they have mastered… Self-awareness. Because you can know your attachment style. Know your triggers. Know your patterns. Know exactly what your ex did wrong. And still not actually be as self-aware as you think you are. In fact, one of the biggest things I’ve been realizing is that so many women are incredibly aware of their flaws… But completely unaware of their...

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