Be Great with Bruce Colero

Overcoming a Dark Past to Find Peace | Barbie Porter

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In this incredibly raw and powerful episode of the Be Great Podcast, we sit down with Barbie Porter for an unfiltered look into a life defined by extreme highs, devastating lows, and the ultimate pursuit of healing.Barbie opens up about a childhood marked by abuse and family secrets that would break most people. From the unimaginable tragedy of losing a child to the complex reality of surviving narcissism and betrayal, she shares the lessons learned in the darkest corners of her journey. We also dive into her perspectives on current social trends, legislative transparency, and the controversial headlines shaping our world today.This is more than just a conversation; it’s a masterclass in resilience and the messy, non-linear path to finding peace.In This Episode:0:00 - Intro0:20 - Barbie's Abusive Childhood3:20 - Baby Screaming At Men3:56 - Chaos Becomes Your Comfort9:30 - Friends Packed My Life10:03 - He Called Me Stupid Online12:08 - Brother Murdered Baby Mama13:28 - Woke Up On Airplane19:15 - Only The Cage Key20:02 - Only Way Through Pain27:21 - Narcissist Made Me Villain27:50 - His Manager Was Girlfriend28:50 - She Warned Me He Gaslights29:41 - Healing Is Chaotic Not Linear31:17 - I Earned My Crazy Pills32:17 - PTSD Not Just For Soldiers34:07 - Friends Slept On My Floor36:04 - Bull Riding Broken Tailbone43:22 - Miscarriage Then Lost Son44:31 - I Held My Six Month Baby45:05 - It's Not Just An Embryo49:50 - As Absent Baby I'm Glad Alive53:48 - Men Are Equal Claim Debunked54:10 - Believe All Women Is Lie56:10 - Trump Plays Chess Not Checkers57:00 - Women Talk Way Worse60:40 - Epstein Files Chess Move62:32 - Charlie Kirk Conspiracy Breakdown64:16 - I Stand With ICE Period66:29 - Native American Loves America67:51 - Stalker Put Down Payment69:48 - Cool Taste Mental Hospital70:12 - Healing Doesn't Have To Be Pretty74:58 - Bible Picks And Chooses75:45 - Stand Up Or Keep Getting PunchedConnect with the Show:Subscribe for more deep-dive interviews and content optimization.

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