Uncovering Unconscious Competence and Living Intentionally: A Dialogue with Good Life Coach Donna Martin

He Had The Porsche, The Business, And The Dream Home. Then He Lost It All. What actually happens when a successful business owner loses everything overnight. In this raw, unfiltered episode of Tomorrow's Not Today, insolvency expert Hank reveals the real story behind his bankruptcy at 35, the night he had to leave his family home, and why he hid the truth from his wife for months. This is one of the most honest conversations we've ever had on the show. Hank is the founder of De Jong Reid, one of Australia's largest pre-insolvency advisory firms, helping over 300 business owners every year navigate financial distress, liquidation, and bankruptcy. After building a six figure business by the age of 35, a single global crisis wiped it out almost overnight, taking his house, his cars, and nearly his marriage with it. What followed was shame, silence, and a complete rebuild from a card table in the back of a smoke oven shop. In this episode you will learn Why smart, hardworking business owners still lose everything The one business structure mistake that destroys companies when things go wrong How to protect your home and assets before a crisis hits, not after Why you cannot think clearly during financial stress, and what to do instead How to have the hard money conversation with your partner What it actually takes to rebuild your finances, your confidence, and your family Australia is currently seeing the highest number of business insolvencies in its history. Whether you are a business owner, an entrepreneur, or someone quietly worried about money right now, this conversation will give you real hope and a practical roadmap forward. Chapters 00:00 The Bankruptcy Confession Nobody Talks About 02:23 Who Is Hank And What Is De Jong Reid 03:36 Australia's Record Breaking Insolvency Crisis 07:00 The Six Figure Business And The Porsche Life 08:00 How One Global Crisis Destroyed His Business Overnight 09:37 The Advice That Changed Everything 11:11 Bankrupt At 35 - Losing The House And The Business 14:00 The Moment That Broke Him - His Son's Bike 16:35 Why Your Brain Cannot Think Straight In A Crisis 19:00 The Financial Mistake That Made It Worse 22:26 The Conversation He Was Too Ashamed To Have 25:00 How Rock Bottom Became A Healing Period 35:47 The Business Structure Every Owner Must Have 47:00 From A Card Table To A National Company 1:03:35 The Legacy He Wants To Leave Behind Need advice on your business or financial situation Hank and the De Jong Reid team offer free initial consultations for business owners and individuals facing financial difficulty Website: www.djra.com.au About Tomorrow's Not Today A podcast about business, mindset, money, and building a life and legacy you are proud of, no matter what you have been through or what has been done to you. New episodes every week. If this episode helped you, subscribe and leave a review, it genuinely helps more people find the show and the help they need bankruptcy, insolvency, business failure, entrepreneur, financial advice, business structure, asset protection, small business owner, Australia, financial hardship, marriage and money, business recovery

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She Grew Up In Poverty, Was Abused By Her Father, Abandoned At 15 — And Turned It Into A Life Changing Others | Pamela Millican Pamela Millican survived one of the toughest childhoods you'll ever hear about — extreme poverty, domestic violence, sexual abuse, and being abandoned as a teenager — and turned it into a career helping others heal their identity, rebuild self-worth and reset their mindset. In this raw, unfiltered episode of Tomorrow Is Not Today, host Kingsley sits down with mindset coach, NLP master and trauma recovery specialist Pamela Milliken to unpack how childhood beliefs quietly run your entire adult life, and how to finally break free of them. Pamela opens up about growing up on one of England's roughest council estates, surviving a violent father and an absent mother, being sexually abused by a family member, and coming home from a family holiday at 15 to find her house empty and her family gone. She explains how she turned that trauma into two law and psychology degrees, became a European surfing champion within 12 months of picking up a board for the first time, and now helps clients, including survivors of serious abuse, create breakthrough results in hours, not years. This conversation is a masterclass in identity work, self-worth, people-pleasing, trauma healing, NLP, hypnotherapy and mindset coaching, delivered with total honesty and zero fluff. If you've ever felt stuck being who other people need you to be, this episode will change how you listen to your own story. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: Why your identity, not your circumstances, controls your results How childhood beliefs are formed before age 13 and run your life on autopilot Why "there's no failure, only feedback" changes everything How to know if you're an overachiever driven by trauma, not passion Why comfort and familiarity keep people trapped in bad relationships The 3 rules Pamela uses to shut down gossip instantly How to rebuild trust and safety after abandonment or betrayal Why retirement is a myth and growth should never stop How to create a life you want and leave a legacy you're proud of CHAPTERS: 00:00 Growing Up In Poverty And Violence 02:00 Welcome To Tomorrow Is Not Today 03:00 How Childhood Beliefs Create Your Identity 06:00 There's No Failure, Only Feedback 08:00 Good Parent Vs Bad Parent Myth 13:00 Inside England's Roughest Council Estate 17:00 Mother Leaves, Father Gets A New Partner 21:00 Betrayed While On Holiday In Europe 22:00 Coming Home To An Empty House 32:00 Surviving Sexual Abuse As A Child 39:00 Healing Trauma In 2 Hours, Not 2 Years 41:00 Winning A European Title In 12 Months 49:00 Why We Choose Familiar Pain Over Change 59:00 Finding A Safe Relationship After Trauma 1:11:00 How To Create A Life You're Proud Of ABOUT PAMELA MILLIKEN: Pamela Millican is a mindset coach, Master NLP practitioner, hypnotherapist and identity change specialist based on the Gold Coast, Australia. Trained through Tony Robbins and Cloé Madanes' Core 100 program, Pamela works with everyday clients, high-performing athletes and trauma survivors to help them dismantle limiting beliefs, heal childhood trauma and reset their identity, often in hours rather than years of traditional talk therapy. Connect with Pamela Millican: Website: https://www.pamelamillican.com Instagram: @resetwithpamela YouTube: Reset with Pamela Facebook: Pamela Milliken / Reset with Pamela ABOUT TOMORROW IS NOT TODAY: Tomorrow Is Not Today is a personal development and real-talk interview podcast hosted by Kingsley, featuring raw, honest conversations with guests who've turned trauma, adversity and hard-won life lessons into purpose. Every episode dives into mindset, identity, mental health, resilience and self-improvement, because who you are today doesn't have to be who you are tomorrow. Listen and subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes every week. Keywords: mindset coach, childhood trauma, trauma recovery, identity coach, self w

She woke up completely paralyzed from the neck down — and doctors couldn't explain why. In this episode, trauma counselor and bestselling author Dawn Williams shares the story most survivors never tell in public. Dawn opens up about surviving years of domestic violence, the moment she realized she'd become both a victim and an abuser in her own home, and the autoimmune disease that left her body paralyzed after years of unprocessed trauma. Dawn is the bestselling, award-winning author of The Rebuilt Woman and founder of the Rebuilt Movement, which has helped thousands of survivors heal from domestic violence and abuse. In this conversation, she breaks down her four-dimensional healing framework, why it took her seven attempts to finally leave, how she rebuilt her identity while raising four daughters as a single mother, and how forgiveness — not forgetting — set her family free. She also gives an exclusive first look at her upcoming book, The Rebuilt Man, addressing the domestic violence and suicide crisis facing men. If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of trauma, abuse, or self-doubt, this episode will show you it's possible to heal, and exactly where to start. This episode discusses domestic violence, abuse, and trauma. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to a domestic violence helpline or licensed mental health professional in your area. CHAPTERS: 00:00:00 Cold Open: "I Woke Up Paralyzed" 00:02:00 Welcome: Meet Dawn Williams 00:04:00 Can Everyone Heal From Trauma? 00:07:00 Dawn's 7-Year Journey Through Domestic Violence Begins 00:09:00 Writing The Rebuilt Woman: The Book That Cracked Her Open 00:12:00 The Call That Changed Everything: Times Square, New York 00:15:00 Growing Up In Wales: When Violence Was Normal 00:17:00 "The Hammer": Losing Her Identity In An Abusive Marriage 00:21:00 The Morning She Woke Up Completely Paralyzed 00:27:00 Getting Well: Faith, Diet, and Doing the Inner Work 00:34:00 Why It Took Seven Attempts to Leave 00:36:00 When Everything Cracked Open: Betrayal and Breaking Point 00:45:00 Helping Her Four Daughters Heal Together 00:56:00 The Hardest Part: Telling Her Kids Their Dad Wasn't Coming Back 01:03:00 The Rebuilt Man: Why Men Need Healing Too

Description: What do you do when the unthinkable happens? When Jason King lost his 18-year-old daughter Jordan to suicide in March 2023, he made a choice not to grieve in silence, but to turn that pain into purpose. In this raw and deeply moving episode of Tomorrow Is Not Today, Jason shares the full story: discovering he was a father when Jordan was already 20 months old, navigating the family court system, juggling COVID lockdowns, his wife's breast cancer diagnosis, and Jordan's mental health struggles, all at once. And then, the loss that changed everything. Now, from Broken Hill in outback New South Wales, Jason is creating the Jordan Liberty Project, a documentary film and community impact initiative aimed at opening up conversations around youth mental health, particularly in regional and remote Australia. With the Royal Flying Doctor Service as his first impact partner, and a growing coalition of local organisations behind him, Jason is proving that one person's story really can save lives. This episode is honest, practical, and deeply human. Jason talks about self-medication, sobriety, the physical foundations of mental health, and what it truly means to be kind to yourself. He also shares the moment, just three hours after his first public post when a young person messaged him to say the project may have saved their life. Whether you've experienced grief, are supporting someone who is struggling, or simply want to understand mental health in regional communities better, this conversation will stay with you. Support is available. If this episode brings up anything difficult, please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636.