Body by Design

68 You Have To Become Her First

Body by Design

Show Notes

This is the episode nobody in the industry talks about. Not more protein, not progressive overload. Who you have to become to have the body and health you want. Your body is a receipt, the lagging result of who you’ve been being, and you can’t get the body you want inside the identity of who you are now. For women over 40 ready to do the real work.

You already know about protein and progressive overload. That’s not what’s holding you back.

Your body is a receipt. It’s the lagging result of everything you’ve been doing and believing for years, which means you can’t build the body you want inside the lifestyle, habits and self-worth of who you are right now. You have to become her first.

This is the identity work almost no one in this industry teaches, for women over 40 who are done doing everything right and still feeling the resistance they can’t name.

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