Show Notes
In this episode, Hattie shares the winding, courageous journey that led her to becoming a full-time flower farmer living on a smallholding in the countryside. She talks with Michelle about:
Childhood upheaval and losing her family home at 11 Surviving bacterial meningitis at 15 and a serious car crash at 19 Working in waste management, landfill, and wildlife conservation Career pivots into events, volunteering, and charity leadership Quietly carrying a “one day” dream of a flower farm and wedding flowers Finally backing herself during the pandemic to rebuild life around nature
We explore how Hattie’s life “tapestry” was woven from life shocks, resilience, and micro joys, and why she believes purpose, not speed or status, is the truest measure of success.
Key Takeaways Dreams can take a decade (or more) and still be worth it Hattie spent over 10 years moving through different roles and industries before landing in the life she’d imagined—proof that slow progress is still progress. Life shocks can create deep resilience and clarity Losing her home, surviving meningitis, and a near-fatal car accident all became pivotal points that sharpened her sense of what really matters. Your career is a tapestry, not a straight line Each “random” job—waste management, conservation, city of culture, leadership programs—gave her skills she now uses daily on the farm (from land management to events to people skills). Purpose beats prestige A lecturer’s challenge—“Do you want low pay doing good, or big money defending harm?”—anchored her to roles with meaning and social/environmental impact. Nature is medicine Time outdoors has been central to Hattie’s healing from grief and burnout. Her farm is designed as much for wildlife and immersion as for flowers. Micro joys can rebuild a broken season of life Instead of chasing big highs, Hattie learned to collect tiny, daily joys—a robin in the garden, a bird sighting, a small moment of beauty—and use them to slowly climb out of difficult years. You’re allowed to change your mind—and your career Hattie repeatedly “started again” in new sectors. Each leap was scary, but reinforced the idea that confidence often comes after you jump, not before. Listening to your gut is a skill, not fluff From saying yes to the podcast invite to finally starting the flower farm, following her gut has been Hattie’s compass—even when fear and imposter syndrome show up later.
Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to the show & Hattie’s “She Dares Wins” intro 02:30 – Tapestry vs chapters: how Hattie views her life story 04:45 – Losing her home at 11 and joining a new school mid-year 06:30 – Contracting meningitis at 15 and the “life is short” wake‑up 09:00 – The near-fatal Land Rover crash and a new sense of spirituality 18:30 – From landfill and waste to wildlife conservation and values 26:40 – Pandemic reflections and the decision to finally start a flower farm 34:50 – Nature, micro joys, and inviting others to heal on the farm
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