Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships

Part Two of How to Challenge the Status Quo and Live the Life You Love With Hayley Vernon

Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships

Show Notes

Your host Nicole Colantoni is back with part-two of her interview with former Married at First Sight contestant Hayley Vernon. In this episode, they get deep about Hayley’s history with alcohol, drugs, and disordered eating as well as how her dating life and pursuit of true love have changed since not only being in the public eye but also working in the adult industry. Make sure to listen to this episode if you’ve ever felt like you are destined for more in life but can’t see a way out of your circumstances. Hayley’s determination and ability to overcome all of the obstacles she’s encountered will make you realise that you are not defined by your past and that at any moment you are just one decision away from creating the life of your dreams. Tune in next Wednesday for the last SOLO EP of the season! GUEST LINKS: IG: hayleyvernon_ SIGN UP: For the first time ever Single at Thirty will be hosting an online workshop “Why Attracting Healthy Love Starts With You" which will be held by dating expert and host of the Single at Thirty podcast Nicole Colantoni as well as Psychologist Rachael Torcasio. Sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAvcOCoqDMjH9289KwglRXwP_Re24PW55pzfbclid=IwAR1iW1doNW_PKkH0GYtlkAkF05hFv4bg1BJAhTFyOsAn9rIZ3sH6XzTE5ME SUNDAY DATING SCARIES:

Each week you can write in your dating dilemmas and either Nicole or another dating expert will respond to any dilemma you have or advice you need. FIND ME: IG: @Single_at_Thirty W: singleatthirty.com JOIN: Join the Single at Thirty private Facebook group and workshop any love, life, or relationship dilemmas you are experiencing with like-minded Modern Women. This week psychologist, Rachael Torcasio, will be responding to any relationship dilemma you have. All you need to do is sign up and ask away! https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 BOOK IN: Want to level up your love life? Book in a 1:1 with Nicole here: https://www.nicolecolantoni.com/contact See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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