Show Notes
Think all the confident, larger-than-life people you admire are natural extroverts? In this episode of DarrenDaily On-Demand, Darren Hardy shares the third dirty little secret in his series on what's really behind super-achievers, and this one might be the most surprising yet. After interviewing and studying hundreds of famous, wildly successful people, Darren reveals that the overwhelming majority are actually introverts privately, even the ones who perform in front of tens of thousands of people for a living. He includes himself on that list and shares a moment from his own CEO events that reveals just how many high achievers in any room are secretly uncomfortable in the exact same way. This episode gives you a simple, practical move for turning that discomfort into connection.
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