Traps and Tricks: When to Ask, When to Decide

When should a leader ask for input, and when is it better to simply make the decision?

In this episode of The Experimental Leader Podcast, Melanie Parish and Mel Rutherford explore one of the trickier parts of leadership: knowing when collaboration is helpful and when asking for input can actually create confusion, frustration, or a false sense of shared decision-making.

They unpack the difference between consulting, collaborating, and deciding, and why leaders need to understand their own decision-making authority before asking others for their opinions. If a leader already knows the decision is going forward, asking for input without being clear about what can actually change can erode trust.

Melanie and Mel discuss when leaders should involve people who are directly affected by a decision, why routine or preference-based decisions rarely require broad consultation, and how hiring decisions can benefit from input from the people who will actually work with a candidate.

They also explore how decision-making changes depending on the organizational context, from academic shared governance to startups and owner-led businesses.

The takeaway? Before you ask, know what you are asking for, who needs to be involved, and what you are willing or able to change.

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Listen in and keep experimenting with how you lead.