Build With Us Not For Us: What Aging Well Really Looks Like (Part 1)

What if learning about dementia started before a family ever had to face it?

What happens when someone who has spent his life rescuing people faces something he cannot rescue his own mum from? In this episode, Andrew Karesa sits down with Andrew “Reidy” Reid, longtime Bondi Rescue lifeguard, endurance athlete and dementia advocate, for an incredibly open conversation about lifeguarding, family, caregiving, grief, endurance sport, and his mum Trish’s journey with dementia. Reidy has spent more than 20 years as a lifeguard, becoming one of the familiar faces of Bondi Rescue. He has also completed more than 50 marathons, competed in Ironman triathlons, and even holds a Guinness World Record for running a marathon carrying a surfboard. But years before dementia became part of his own family, Reidy had already started using that endurance background to support dementia research through the 155-kilometre Bondi2Berry ride. Then his mum, Trish, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease and vascular dementia. The conversation explores Reidy’s life beyond dementia, from growing up around Bondi and becoming a lifeguard to the beginnings of Bondi Rescue, extraordinary rescues, more than 50 marathons, Ironman racing, his 2:49 marathon, and the unlikely story behind his Guinness World Record marathon carrying a surfboard. In this episode: Growing up around Bondi and how Reidy became a lifeguard The real-life rescues behind Bondi Rescue What more than 20 years of lifeguarding has taught him about patience and caregiving Trish’s early signs of dementia and eventual diagnosis What it feels like to mourn someone who is still alive The emotional difficulty of visiting a parent living in a nursing home Navigating caregiving and complicated family relationships The wild story behind running a 3:17 marathon carrying a surfboard Bondi2Berry and raising money for dementia research This is a conversation about much more than Bondi Rescue. It is about what happens when the person accustomed to being the rescuer becomes a son trying to navigate something he cannot fix. Learn more at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠ ———

NOTE: This is Part 2 of 2 of our Silver Tech Summit 2.0 special. In this special episode of The Dementia Collective, Andrew Karesa sits down with seven guests at the Silver Tech Summit 2.0 in Edmonton to explore what aging well really looks like, who gets a say in shaping that future, and why older adults need to be part of the conversation. Featuring: Darlene Schindel, Founder, NurseWell Collective Dr. Martin Ferguson-Pell, Professor, Faculty of Rehabilitation Medicine, University of Alberta Janice Baskin, Manager, Edmonton Regional Innovation Network Karen Murdock, Founder, Silver Longevity Business Association Jay Pritchard, President, WE Seniors Zoran Kovacevic, entrepreneur and founder of Pace Pet Chief Billy Morin, Member of Parliament for Edmonton Northwest, former Chief of Enoch Cree Nation, and Indigenous Services Critic In this episode: What “Build With Us, Not For Us” actually means Why older adults need a voice in the technologies and services created for them Why care is about more than technology Loneliness, isolation, and rebuilding community Turning research and innovation into real-world solutions Entrepreneurship and designing alongside the people you serve Indigenous entrepreneurship and culturally appropriate care for Elders Rethinking how we define and measure successful aging This special episode was filmed at and produced in conjunction with the Silver Tech Summit 2.0, hosted by WE Seniors in Edmonton, Alberta. Learn more at: https://www.bluebellvillage.ca https://silvertechsummit.ca/ https://slba.ca/ ———

What does caregiving look like when no one sees what you’re carrying?

What if the biggest problem with dementia care is not dementia, but the way we have designed care around it? In this episode, Andrew Karesa sits down with Eloy van Hal, co-founder of the Hogeweyk and senior managing advisor with Be Advice, to explore how one of the world’s most recognized approaches to dementia care grew from a traditional institutional nursing home into a neighbourhood built around normal life, autonomy, relationships, and personhood. Often described as the world’s first “dementia village,” the Hogeweyk began transforming dementia care more than 30 years ago. Together, Andrew and Eloy challenge conventional ideas about safety, locked doors, risk, independence, and what people living with dementia should be allowed to do. Eloy explains why everyday experiences like cooking with a knife, shopping for groceries, walking outside, meeting strangers, and choosing how to spend the day matter. He also shares why, if he were starting again today, he might not build a dementia village at all. Eloy also reflects on his own experience supporting his mother, who is living with dementia, and how being a family caregiver has shaped his perspective after decades of working professionally in dementia care. In this episode: How the Hogeweyk evolved from a traditional nursing home Why Eloy dislikes the term “dementia village” Why dementia care needs to rethink risk and safety Whether people living with dementia should be free to leave How small group homes and shared lifestyles create comfort Why everyday interactions and community matter What Eloy has learned caring for his own mother Why leadership is essential to changing dementia care What Eloy would do differently if building the Hogeweyk today This is a conversation about dementia care, autonomy, dignity, risk, community, leadership, and a simple idea that people living with dementia should be seen people first Learn more at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.bethecareconcept.com/en/ https://hogeweyk.dementiavillage.com/