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Gemma O’Neill: Why Women are Better Negotiators

We Have A Situation

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In this episode, Michelle sits down with powerhouse media executive and entrepreneur Gemma O’Neill, whose 25-year career spans high-stakes negotiations, creative reinvention, and building spaces for women to thrive. From working alongside Nicole Kidman to co-founding Besties with Jackie O, Gemma has learned a thing or two about owning her voice - and now she’s sharing it with us. We cover: The exact steps of a successful negotiation and how to set the tone with confidence Why women are naturally good at negotiating How to use language, energy, and even your outfit to shift negotiation fear into power Why women still lag behind in salary conversations and how to change that Want more of Gemma? Listen to the Besties Podcast and explore courses and community at wearebesties.com A huge thanks to Hey Sister! and 12WBT for making this episode possible. Hey Sister!! Hey Sister! provides natural period pain, PMS and Menopause relief. For 20% your next Hey Sister! order click here https://tiny.heysister.com/12wbt or use code 12WBT at checkout. This season of We Have a Situation was Executive Produced by Monica Reid

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