Show Notes
This episode is a session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference where Dr. Ashley Grubbs describes common sensory issues that come up in sex and the difficulty this can create in relationships for both people. Whether it is not tolerating moisture, struggling to enjoy kissing, or feeling overwhelmed with heat, sensory differences are a major impact on sexuality and can derail intimacy quickly. After a brief overview, Dr. Grubbs provides solutions for these different problems so that sex can feel accessible again.
Dr. Ashley Grubbs is an Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in neurodiversity and sex therapy. She works to ensure couples with different neurotypes have the tools needed to improve their intimacy and connection in a way that works for them. She received her Bachelor’s degree from Texas State University, Master’s degree at University of North Texas at Dallas, and PhD in Clinical Sexology. Her dissertation, Blending the Brains will be published as a practical tool for couples.
If you want to learn more about Dr. Grubbs or the services she provides you can check out her website below: www.blueharbortherapy.com —————————————————————————— If you are interested in buying lifetime access to all the video sessions from the 2023 or 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here. If you would like to learn more about the other resources Mona offers, including support groups, coaching and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com
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It has been an honor and a privilege for me to have hosted and co-hosted the Neurodiverse Love podcast since the fall of 2020. I will be forever grateful to my dear friend Olga, who agreed to start this podcast journey with me in the middle of the pandemic, and to all my co-hosts who have partnered with me along the way: Manecia, Greg, Nicole and Bronwyn.
This wonderful conversation is one of the amazing panel discussions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference.
The four part Neurodiverse Love Docuseries shows how 4 neurodiverse couples navigate different communication styles, emotional needs, sensory and physical intimacy differences, and employment and special interests. In addition, three therapists/coaches who work with neurodiverse couples share strategies, tools and insights that can help neurodiverse couples navigate their strengths, challenges and differences. Check out the first 2 episodes here: https://www.neurodiverselove.com/the-documentary
The intro and first two episodes of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries are available here. The first episode addresses communication differences and the second episode focuses on emotional reciprocity.
This episode is a very informative panel discussion from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. The following individuals participated in this conversation and I hope you find the information they shared helpful.