How Denying A Problem Keeps Families Stuck & Disconnected
Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who WorryShow Notes
Lynn often talks about the sizable “sweet spot of normal.” Our children will be sad, angry, confused and rejected and we can guide them through the ups and downs. Denial, however, prevents kids from learning how to get to the other side Denial shows them how to ignore rather than problem solve and engage in productive struggle.
Past episodes discussed in today's Flusterclux episode:
ARFID Is More Than Picky Eating: Lynn & Mindy Szelap Offer Help
Raising Kids Who Are Really Ready For College Isn’t What You Think
Listeners Ask: Siblings Fighting: Don't Say Boys Will Be Boys
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