Show Notes
What if the part of you that knows what's actually wrong isn't your brain?
This week on Simplify, Caitlin sits down with Dr. Arielle Schwartz—clinical psychologist, somatic therapy expert, and author of more books than seems reasonable for one person—to talk about what your body has been trying to tell you for years. Arielle has been working in somatics for thirty years, long before TikTok turned it into a buzzword, and her gift is making something that can feel slippery and slightly woo-woo feel concrete and useful. And, delightfully, she'll get us there via rivers, vagus nerves, and the wisdom of your gut.
The conversation moves through somatic therapy itself, what an actual session looks like, and why the chairs aren't bolted to the floor, polyvagal theory broken down for a five-year-old, and why some of the most stubborn anxiety patterns aren't really about what's happening out there, exactly—they're about what's happening inside your. body.
There's also a thread that quietly runs through the whole episode about how our earliest experiences—earlier than we usually consider—shape how safe the world feels in our bodies for the rest of our lives.
Her parting demystification of the field is one for anyone who's tried to fix themselves quickly and wondered why it didn't stick.
Resources:
Arielle's Recs: The Post-Traumatic Growth Guidebook, the work of Janina Fisher Ben's Rec: Braiding Sweet Grass by Robin Wall Kimmerer Caitlin's Rec: Tell Me Where it Hurts by Dr. Rachel Zoffness
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