Show Notes
If you’re facing someone who keeps moving the goalposts, throwing unrelated accusations, recruiting “flying monkeys,” contradicting their own statements, and escalating every attempt at resolution, you may not be dealing with a merely difficult person—you may be dealing with a high-conflict personality. In this powerful conversation, Rebecca Zung, The Leverage Lawyer, interviews Lindsey Shneyder about the five diagnostic signs that reveal when a difficult opponent has crossed into high-conflict territory and why using normal “reasonable person” strategies can actually make your situation worse. Together, they explore shifting demands, unrelated accusations, triangulation and distributed campaigns, contradictions across emails, texts, court filings and sworn statements, and the pattern of escalation that can turn every attempt at resolution into more conflict. Most importantly, Rebecca explains the strategic shift that changes everything: stop trying to convince, stop defending, stop chasing resolution—and start strategizing, using leverage, and becoming undeniable.
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