Episode 398: 3 Steps to Taking Responsibility for Self When Others Refuse to Do the Same (Rebroadcast)
The Non-Anxious Leader PodcastShow Notes
Self-differentiating, taking responsibility for self, can be hard when others respond by defining and blaming you. This is sabotage. Here are three steps to respond effectively. Show Notes: Generation to Generation: Family Process in Church and Synagogue by Edwin Friedman* A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix by Edwin Friedman* What IS a Failure of Nerve? – The Non-Anxious Leader The Differentiated Leader - The Non-Anxious Leader Check out The Non-Anxious Life, a FREE AI Family Systems Coach. Become a Patron for as little as $5/month. Subscribe to my weekly Two for Tuesday email newsletter. *These are affiliate links. I earn a small commission if a purchase is made.
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