Show Notes
Have you ever finally made time for yourself—only to hear your brain immediately list everything else you should be doing? Sometimes what feels like an obligation is actually an internal rule you have repeated so often that it now sounds like fact. “I should help.” “I shouldn’t disappoint her.” “A good mom would…” “I should be able to handle this.” In this episode of Weight Loss Made Simple, Dr. Stacy Heimburger moves one step upstream from guilt and looks at the thoughts underneath it. You w...
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