Show Notes
In this episode, Lynda and Jon imagine how profoundly different their childhood experiences of grief might have been if today’s social media, technology, online resources and constant ability to connect had existed when they were children. For Lynda, social media might have meant feeling far less alone after the plane crash that killed her mother and two sisters. Beyond her immediate family and friends, she had no way of knowing how many people had been affected by the tragedy or how many str...
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