349: Feel Like You're Doing Everything But Getting Nowhere? Here's the Energy Framework that Changes the Game with Heather Chauvin
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📚 ORDER MY NEW BOOK Making Home Your Happy Place: The Real-Life Guide to Decluttering Without the Overwhelm. 👉 Order wherever books are sold 🎯 TAKE THE FREE DECLUTTERING STYLE QUIZ Discover your personal Decluttering Style and get a clear, realistic starting plan that actually fits your life. 👉 Take the free quiz A New Way to Feel Less Drained Without Adding One More Thing to Your To-Do List Have you ever had a week where you're doing everything "right" — keeping up with the house, taking care of everyone, staying on top of work — and you still end the day completely wiped out? It's easy to assume the fix is better time management… a tighter schedule… more productivity hacks. But what if the problem isn't time at all? In this conversation, I sit down with Heather Chauvet — author, coach, and host of the Emotionally Uncomfortable podcast — to talk about energetic time management: planning your days around how you want to feel, not just what needs to get done. Heather shares how this approach helped her reclaim her life, and how it can help you stop living in a constant state of depletion. Right now, so many women are carrying invisible weight — doing more, nurturing more, holding more, rescuing more — and calling it "normal." This episode is a breath of fresh air if you're tired of the chaos-as-a-connection-point and ready for a calmer, more intentional way to move through your days. It's honest. It's practical. And it might change how you think about productivity from here on out. KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: Time management won't help if your energy is leaking You can have a perfectly planned day and still feel depleted. Heather explains why the real work is identifying what drains you — emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually.
Start with "Wouldn't it be nice if…" to uncover what you actually want A simple pen-and-paper exercise helps you reconnect with your desires — especially if you've been living in "I have to" mode for so long you don't even know what you want anymore.
Chase the feeling, not the goal Instead of obsessing over the outcome, Heather teaches you to ask: "If I had that, how would I want to feel?" (Alive, connected, respected, calm). Then you build your days from the inside out.
Resentment is a clue that a boundary has been crossed If you're quietly becoming irritated or snapping more often, it's often an invisible boundary you've been ignoring. Naming what's no longer working is how you start reclaiming your capacity.
Decluttering isn't just physical — it's relational and emotional too Heather shares how "putting people down" (not carrying what isn't yours) can be one of the biggest energetic declutters you ever make — and how it creates real spaciousness in your life.
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