Show Notes
Work with meAccess the Feral Effect hereLets normalize the freeze response so we can feel less shame and access more joy after sexual trauma.Listen for -what is happening in the body when Freeze happens, and why its not the same as "doing nothing" -How to gently come out of a freeze response -the next phase of healing after "survivor" that I want everyone to experience
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