Be It Till You See It

730. The Advice Audit: Who Actually Gets a Vote in Your Life?

Be It Till You See It

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For some of us advice feels like support. For others it's one more voice to manage. Wherever you land, Lesley Logan borrows a Brené Brown question to sort through the crowd of opinions we collect from mentors, friends, and family, and figure out whose opinion should matter in the first place. Maybe it's time to notice that the smartest people in your life are often smart in a lane that has nothing to do with yours.

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In this episode you will learn about: The difference between receiving advice and absorbing advice Why other people's advice is really about their fears and limitations Not every correction is meant for every body on every day How to notice when advice creates urgency, shame, or people-pleasing Feedback is information, not instruction

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Episode Transcript: Lesley Logan 0:00 When it comes to knowing what to do next, I think the problem often in being it till we see it, in taking action towards our goals, is that we actually have collected so many opinions about the next step, we have forgotten our own opinion, and we have no idea what to do. We almost have too many options.

Lesley Logan 0:16 Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action b

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