Show Notes
Emily started smoking at a young age and it quickly became attached to her identity as a writer. Eventually she reached her limit and quit, using fear as her primary motivation. Emily still has occasional cravings but shares with us how self-talk and connecting with others has solidified her choice to remain smoke free.
About Emily: Emily Andrews is a writer from Northern Ontario, Canada with a BA in English from Athabasca University. She is the author of unknown titles such as The Fates of Three and Danni Fundy: Occult Babysitter. She loves the city but somehow lives on a small farm with her husband and son.
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