Episode 8: Ever Accountable with Tyler Patterson

You probably don't realize it, but the unhealed six-year-old version of you is likely calling the shots in your adult life, your marriage and your addiction. Most recovery focuses entirely on behavior modification, internet filters and willpower—and most of it fails because it treats the symptom while ignoring the wounded child behind the wheel. In this episode, we sit down with Steve O'Connor from Catholics Fight Porn to break down the Inner Child Model created by Dr. Eddie Capparucci. We explore how childhood neglect and trauma fuel adult sexual addiction, how to practically apply the Inner Child framework to your recovery and why individual healing is paramount—even inside a marriage. Resources & Books Mentioned in This Episode:Dr. Eddie Capparucci: Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction Eddie & Teri Capparucci: Going Deeper For Betrayed Partners Dr. Eddie Capparucci: Same Triggers. New Responses. Journal 👟 TAKE YOUR NEXT STEP Ready for Change? Schedule a free discovery call with Jacob to see if recovery coaching might be a good fit for you. Spread the Word: Connected with something that we said? Hated something that we said? We don't care. We're just happy you listened. Send this episode to a friend to get the conversation rolling. Join the Movement: Grab some dope, live-out-loud recovery gear and learn more about what we do. 🚨 DISCLAIMER: The Brazen Recovery Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The personal experiences, perspectives, and opinions shared by Jacob, Miriam, and their guests are not a substitute for professional medical, clinical, mental health, or legal advice. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional regarding your personal situation.

Kids don't stay naive forever—if you aren't talking to them about sex, culture is already filling the silence. In this episode of Brazen Recovery, Miriam and Jacob sit down with John Fort, Director of Training at Be Broken Ministries and author of Don't Stress Talking Sex. John cuts through the awkwardness and fear to give parents practical, age-appropriate strategies for teaching biblical sexuality, leading with honesty and fostering open communication in the home. Whether you’re dealing with curious young kids or navigating complex digital challenges with teenagers, John offers a proactive roadmap to help you lead your family with confidence instead of fear. In This Episode, We Discuss:How to create safety by building emotional intimacy with your children first Practical steps for parents to overcome fear, shame and personal awkwardness The difference between shame and guilt Resources & Links Mentioned: John Fort’s Book: Don't Stress Talking Sex by John Fort Family Recovery & Support: Pure Life Academy Family Resources Sex Ed Curriculum for Homeschoolers & Families: Journey Homeschool Academy Sex Ed Series Age-Appropriate Books for Young Kids: God Made Your Body by Jim Burns Not sure how to talk to your kids because you're struggling yourself? Try sexual addiction recovery coaching with Jacob. Schedule your free discovery call today and feel free to check out brazenrecovery.org to learn more. Spread the Word! Connected with something that we said? Hated something that we said? Send this episode to a friend to get the conversation rolling. Join the Movement: Grab some dope recovery gear and follow us on Instagram @brazen_recovery. 🚨 DISCLAIMER: The Brazen Recovery Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The personal experiences, perspectives and opinions shared by Jacob, Miriam and their guests are not a substitute for professional medical, clinical, mental health or legal advice. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional regarding your personal situation/

Stopping a compulsion is hard enough—until you realize your brain is secretly shopping for a replacement. In this episode of Brazen Recovery, Jacob and Miriam sit down with Dominic Beaufeaux from White Mountains Counseling to talk about cross-addictions—how they can look like sobriety and help you avoid the real work of recovery. Dominic is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT) through IITAP, certifications that are monumentally helpful for those looking to heal from addictive behavior. In this episode, we cover: Why healing can feel like a tiring game of Whack-a-Mole How modern technology and novelty feed compulsive behavior The importance of getting to the root of the issue to avoid cross-addicting If you love movie references and honest conversations about breaking free from addictive behavior, you won’t want to miss this one. 👟 TAKE YOUR NEXT STEP Ready for Change? Schedule a free discovery call with Jacob. Spread the Word: Connected with something that we said? Hated something that we said? We don't care. We're just happy you listened. Send this episode to a friend to get the conversation rolling. Join the Movement: Grab some dope, live-out-loud recovery gear and learn more about what we do. 🚨 DISCLAIMER: The Brazen Recovery Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The personal experiences, perspectives, and opinions shared by Jacob, Miriam, and their guests are not a substitute for professional medical, clinical, mental health, or legal advice. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional regarding your personal situation.

In this episode, we open up our personal operational blueprints: Miriam's Safety Plan and Jacob's Recovery Action Plan. We break down why these documents are essential for surviving trigger moments, how our own plans have evolved over time and why treating them as static checklists instead of living, breathing frameworks will leave your marriage and your sobriety vulnerable. Whether you are navigating sex addiction recovery, managing middle-circle boundaries or rebuilding trust after betrayal trauma, your strategy must adapt as you grow. We share the practical mechanics of reviewing, refining and regularly updating your plans so you can stay steps ahead of active addiction and keep your boundaries airtight. 👟 TAKE YOUR NEXT STEP Ready for Change? Schedule a free, confidential, 1-on-1 discovery call with Jacob. Spread the Word: Connected with something that we said? Hated something that we said? Send this episode to a friend to get the conversation rolling. Join the Movement: Grab some dope recovery gear and check out what else we have rolling at brazenrecovery.org and follow us on Instagram @brazen_recovery. 🚨 DISCLAIMER: The Brazen Recovery Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The personal experiences, perspectives and opinions shared by Jacob, Miriam and their guests are not a substitute for professional medical, clinical, mental health or legal advice. Always seek the advice of a qualified professional regarding your personal situation. 🔍 RECOVERY RESOURCES: If you or your spouse are ready to build your own plans, check out Pure Desire's Free Resources. Just scroll down and type in "Recovery Action Plan".

When betrayal trauma hits, the initial discovery is rarely the whole story. The slow trickle of truth—known as staggered disclosure—inflicts continuous, compounding trauma on a spouse trying to find solid ground.