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Have you ever dealt with a difficult coworker? Are you currently having to put up with one? They might be a jerk at work.I sat down with Tessa West and talked about her book "Jerks at Work". We talked about types of toxic coworkers, signs of a toxic coworker, and how to set up boundaries.Nothing is worse than a toxic coworker making your work even more difficult. Sometimes all you worry about is them and not your deadlines. In this video, we will teach you how to set up boundaries and make sure you're not the jerk at work either!Identify your jerks at work with Tessa West's book! Jerks At Work, get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Jerks-Work-Toxic-Coworkers-About/dp/0593192303In this video:0:00 Intro4:00 What is a toxic coworker?5:48 What is a free rider?7:19 How to detect the free rider9:15 What is social comparison orientation?10:34 What to do about kiss up and kick downers14:49 Am I the jerk at work?17:48 Being an ally******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#jerks #coworkers #boundaries #jerskatwork #tessawest #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I got permission to share one of my favorite excerpts from my Cues Audiobook. Learn how simple nonverbal cues changed the course of history and can help you look more powerful. Listen to how Richard Nixon's 1960 presidential debate nonverbal cues rewrote political fate! 🎙️ Explore the captivating tale of Nixon's fateful gestures, from posture to expressions, that reshaped an election. Discover how Kennedy's composed cues spoke volumes of confidence. 🤝 Join us as we unravel the untold impact of nonverbal cues on power and perception. 🕵️♂️🔍 #CuesBook #AudiogramThis is from our latest bestselling book: Cues Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ Read it on Amazon, Audible or wherever books are sold!****** In this video: 0:06 - Nixon's String of Bad Luck0:22 - Negative Cues and the First Presidential Debate0:57 - The Difference in Nonverbal Cues1:08 - Runner's Feet 2:03 - White Knuckling2:49 - Self-Soothing 3:56 - Gaze Direction4:48 - Nixon's Shifty Reputation5:07 - Contempt and Disdain5:58 - Kennedy's Calm and Confident Demeanor6:12 - Nixon's Cue Signals and the Election OutcomePS - Join the conversation on social! ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards Read More: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How many Americans do you think believe in the concept of soulmates? Which part of the percentage do you stand in?In this video, I talk about the science of soulmates and the difference between destiny believers vs. growth believers in romantic relationships. Whether you believe in the idea of soulmates or not, the concept can really affect your mindset when searching for a partner, what the longevity of a relationship looks like for you, and success rate.Want more details on the science of soulmates? 👉https://www.scienceofpeople.com/soulmate/Succeed with people with my book Captivate!: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/Learn how to read your soulmate's cues with my new book Cues!: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/In this video:0:00 Intro0:30 Statistics on Soulmates2:05 Destiny vs. Growth Beliefs3:15 Shift In Beliefs4:00 The Demise of Destiny Believers4:28 Advice to Destiny Believers******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesJoin the waitlist for People School here 👉 http://bit.ly/2yUf0WR******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more. Can’t get enough of Science of People? Check out our Praiseworthy Performance audio guide👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/start/******Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you have a bucket list? This is a list of wishes and desires you want to accomplish in your life. They can range from small like learning how to sew to huge like visiting every country in the world. Are you living the life you want to live? Do you have things on your bucket list that you want to accomplish before a certain milestone?Having a bucket list will help you stay on track with your personal goals.I think everyone should have a Bucket List or a “To Experience” list. Here’s why:• Bucket lists make you stop and think what you actually want to experience in this lifetime.• Bucket lists remind you that life is short and we should live it to its fullest.• Bucket lists increase our happiness because they give us both hope and curiosity (2 essential ingredients for happiness).And in this video, I want to help you create your bucket list and start executing the amazing items you have been dying to try. What are you waiting for?If you accept the challenge, Click HERE:http://ctt.ec/J90rNWant more details on how to create your bucket list?https://www.scienceofpeople.com/bucket-list/00:00 Intro00:27 Step 1- Dreamstorm01:08 Step 2- Time List02:18 Step 3- Partner in Joy02:34 Step 4- Top Three03:19 Step 5- Who, When, Where, and How Much?03:57 Step 6- Never Ending******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.Vanessa works with entrepreneurs, growing businesses, and trillion dollar companies; and has spoken to thousands of audiences at TEDx London, MIT and CES to name a few. Science of People looks at the hidden forces that drive our behavior. It’s mission is to help people achieve their goals faster and understand what makes people tick.👉 https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate ******Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 http://bit.ly/37ZWNHSP.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell!******✔ W E B S I T Ehttps://www.scienceofpeople.comFollow Us on:✔ I N S T A G R A Mhttps://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards✔ T W I T T E Rhttps://twitter.com/vvanedwards✔ L I N K E D I Nhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessavanedwards✔ F A C E B O O Khttps://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards#BucketList #Goals #Happiness #VanessaVanEdwards Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You'll have to tell me what type of laugh you have from these 12. If i'm laughing really hard, I have the chortle 😂 are there more types of laughs? I hope that you laugh just from watching this video!In this video:0:00 - Intro0:55 - Laugh #11:06 - Laugh #21:15 - Laugh #31:27 - Laugh #41:42 - Laugh #51:59 - Laugh #62:11 - Laugh #72:30 - Laugh #82:53 - Laugh #83:00 - Laugh #103:20 - Laugh #113:38 - Laugh #12******If you’re ready to level up your charisma, check out our flagship course, People School: http://bit.ly/2yUf0WRPeople School is a 12 step video based training program designed to increase your interpersonal intelligence. People School focuses on the four core competencies of Business PQ:• Empower Leaders and Managers• Leverage Science-Backed Communication Tools• Activate Effective Teamwork and Collaboration• Improve Client Relations & SalesJoin People School here 👉 www.scienceofpeople.com/enroll******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.PS - Get our free 60-minute online trainings: https://www.scienceofpeople.com+ Join the party on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/******Did you enjoy the video? If so, give it a like above! Subscribe to our channel for more human behavior hacks and communication strategies👉 https://youtube.com/c/VanessaVanEdwardsYT/P.S. Make sure to keep up with us by clicking the bell! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Morgan Freeman is extremely likable, do you know why? He's charming, he's charismatic, he's funny, and most of all his voice is impeccable. I've studied Morgan Freeman and a ton of media to decode his verbal and nonverbal cues and in this video, I break them down and teach you how you can be as likable as Morgan Freeman. In this video:0:00 Intro0:46 Cue #13:49 Cue #29:03 Cue #311:11 Cue #413:09 Cue #516:16 Cue #618:07 Cue #721:36 You are likableCaptivate a room and succeed with people with my book Captivate! Get it here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/Read Morgan Freeman's cues and everyone else's and master the secret language of charismatic communication with my new book Cues! Get it here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/******Hi, I’m Vanessa!You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (https://www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/) and creator of People School(https://www.scienceofpeople.com/people-school/).My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/******PS - Join the conversation on social!☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vvanedwards/☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/#likable #likability #charisma #charm #morganfreeman #vanessavanedwards #captivate #captivatebook #cues #cuesbook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices