Show Notes
"Be realistic." That's the advice that almost kept me poor forever. I was living in a rent-by-the-day hotel in Los Angeles with strangers pounding on my door. I was sick, isolated, and completely broke. Logic said go home to Appalachia. Logic said save every penny. Instead, I put thousands of dollars on three maxed-out credit cards for a certification I couldn't afford. It was the most reckless decision I ever made. It was also the best. In this episode of I'd Like to Thank MySELF, I'm going back to the beginning. Moving to LA with $7,000. The health crisis that wiped me out. Losing every friend I had. And the moment I decided to bet on myself with money I didn't have, for a future I couldn't prove. This isn't a masterclass. It's the real story of what it looks like to start a business with no money, no support system, and no evidence it's going to work. Just a feeling in your gut that says: this is the move. I talk about why "playing it safe" is actually the most dangerous financial decision you can make. Why staying in a job you hate or a life that's too small is its own kind of bet. Why your 40s might be the best time to reinvent everything. And how growing up on food stamps in Appalachia taught me that "being realistic" is the enemy of building something real. That three-credit-card bet? It became the foundation for the Institute of Transformational Nutrition, tens of thousands of certified coaches worldwide, and multiple businesses generating over $100 million. From nothing. From a girl who bathed in a creek and didn't have a bathroom growing up. If you're a woman over 40 sitting on a decision right now and the math doesn't make sense but your gut won't shut up about it... this one's for you! Chapters 1. 00:00 – The Riskiest Financial Decision I Ever Made 2. 01:02 – One-Way Ticket to LA With $8,000 and a Dream 3. 02:15 – The Shady Hotel & Getting Threatened 4. 04:26 – Refusing to Go Home 5. 05:08 – Modeling Hustle & Desert-Level Risk 6. 07:20 – The First $4,000 Month 7. 09:37 – When Everything Fell Apart 8. 11:21 – Losing Friends & Hitting Rock Bottom 9. 13:31 – The Late-Night Decision to Fix It Herself 10. 14:21 – Splitting It Across Three Credit Cards 11. 16:00 – The Foundation of Everything 12. 18:19 – Why Betting on Yourself Feels Terrifying 13. 20:38 – Not Betting on Yourself Is Also a Bet 14. 21:22 – It Wasn’t About the Money. It Was About Belief. 15. 22:11 – The Toast
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