Summary
College football season prompts a discussion on fatherhood and the impact of paternal figures in life. Tony Robbins reflects on his own experiences with multiple father figures, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love and strength in the father role. He distinguishes between being a father and a dad, noting that while anyone can be a parent, a father is someone who prioritizes the child's well-being, even at the risk of short-term disapproval.
Robbins shares his personal journey, detailing how his relationships with his fathers shaped him. He acknowledges the complexities of these relationships, including a lack of emotional connection with his biological father and the varied influences of his stepfathers. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding and appreciating the diverse experiences of fatherhood, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own relationships with paternal figures.
The discussion also touches on the broader themes of masculinity and the evolving nature of fatherhood, particularly in the context of modern parenting. Robbins and his co-hosts emphasize the importance of being present and nurturing, while also recognizing the challenges fathers face. The episode concludes with a call for fathers to embrace their roles and the lessons they impart, fostering a deeper connection with their children and the community.
Show Notes
In this special VIDEO episode of The Tony Robbins Podcast, you’ll hear from Tony Robbins, his wife Sage Robbins, and podcast host Mary B., as they reflect on the significance of Father's Day with their new baby and delve deep into the profound difference between being a father and being a dad.Uploaded 16-06-23As Tony notes, Fatherhood holds immense importance in society, as it represents one of the most significant roles a person can undertake. While some individuals may have faced challenges in their relationships with their own fathers, others have been fortunate to experience deep and loving connections. Tony takes this opportunity to extend his love and support to all fathers of all kinds, acknowledging the vital role that they play in helping their children grow and thrive, while also touching upon his own personal family history and unique upbringing with multiple fathers. They also get into the impersonal, archetypal father figure and the gifts that masculine energy brings to our lives.In this heartfelt conversation, Tony, Sage and Mary B. shed light on the complexity and diversity of father-child relationships, recognizing that each person may have their own unique perspective on what it truly means to be a father. They also emphasize the transformative influence fathers can have on their children's lives -- and anyone they choose to coach, care for, and mentor -- illustrating the impact a warm, loving father figure. Such fathers provide not only material and emotional support to families but also offer unconditional love, guidance, wisdom, and protection throughout the various stages of a child's life.Please enjoy this tribute to fathers everywhere!SHOW NOTES:00:00 Introduction00:50 What does it mean to be a father?01:42 The difference between a father and a dad03:10 Tony on having multiple fathers03:57 Mothers playing a role in how fathers are perceived05:28 Tony on his biological father, John07:28 Tony on his second father, Art08:01 Tony on his third father, Bob08:25 Jim Robbins, the larger-than-life man who adopted Tony10:43 Our deepest connections aren’t always with biological family11:42 The meaning of a “warm father”13:28 Being a father today at 62 versus 2418:11 Most men are hard on themselves19:03 Most men never share deeply19:50 Tony signs off20:20 Think about YOUR dad, I just talk about mine20:44 Sage on feeling her father’s presence22:37 Mother/Father, Yin/Yang, Feminine/Masculine23:13 Tony Robbins the girl dad25:10 The beautiful gifts of the masculine26:51 Sage on her own evolution and integration28:28 Whose love did you crave?29:31 The gift of honesty and transparency31:32 Mary B. on the sudden loss of her father33:37 Making amends with our parents34:37 Keeping a deceased parent’s memory alive35:51 Sage on identity, beliefs, and expectations37:23 Declaring war on our parents40:57 Global beliefs like: Men are… Fathers are…42:45 Different energies and expressions of men44:26 Sage shares a story of healing45:42 Happy Father’s Day! Sign off***Follow Tony Robbins:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyRobbinsInstagram: https://instagram.com/tonyrobbins/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tonyrobbinsTwitter: https://twitter.com/tonyrobbinsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/officialtonyrobbinsWebsite: https://tonyr.co/3zBjTrG/ Tony Robbins is a #1 New York Times best-selling author, entrepreneur, and philanthropist. For more than four and a half decades, millions of people have enjoyed the warmth, humor and dynamic presentation of Mr. Robbins' corporate and personal development events. As the nation's #1 life and business strategist, he's called upon to consult and coach some of the world's finest athletes, entertainers, Fortune 500 CEOs, and even presidents of nations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adch Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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