Show Notes
By The Way... Tove Lo never wants to grow up, and she thinks the timeline for having your life figured out is a total lie! This week, Harriet sits down with the iconic pop visionary, musician, and songwriter to unpack everything from her generation-defining 2014 hit Habits to her highly anticipated sixth studio album, Estrus. Tove Lo opens up about the realities of navigating her late 30s as a woman in the music industry, the societal pressure to conform, and the deep existential pain that fuelled her new record. She gets candid about her body and mind "having an argument" over the pressure to procreate, and addresses the negativity she occasionally faces as a happily married pansexual woman. But it’s not all heavy talk; the pair also get incredibly honest about their personal lives. Tove Lo reveals the hilarious reason she is officially entering her "cat lady era," explains her mother's brilliant therapeutic advice on handling online hate, and why you should look forward to tit tassles. Tove Lo's latest single "I'm Your Girl, Right?" is out now, and her new album Estrus drops this September! Don't forget to catch her live when she hits the UK this November, performing at the O2 Brixton Academy on November 7th before heading to Manchester!
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Content note: This episode contains discussions of sexual assault and mental health. Please listen with care and skip any sections that aren’t right for you
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