Secular Homeschool Revolution

Why I chose to raise my kids without religion

Secular Homeschool Revolution

Show Notes

Raising My Kids Without Religion Okay y’all, in this episode I’m talking about why I’m raising my kids without religion, especially in this wild political climate where folks are trying to sneak Christianity back into schools like it’s a school supply. We get into how most of us BIPOC didn’t “choose” our religion (we inherited it), how kids getting baptized is not “their decision,” and why I’m raising critical thinkers instead of quiet, obedient little church members. I also talk about my husband’s religious trauma, the whole “church hurt” gaslighting, the messy history of Christianity and colonization, the rise of Christian nationalism, the 10 Commandments being forced on kids, and yes… I even gave a shout-out to the problematic missionaries. This episode is not anti-belief it’s anti-fear, anti-shame, and pro-liberation. Listen on the site: secularhomeschoolrevolution.comStay secular, stay revolutionary.

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