HR Coffee Time

143 | 4 surprising training options to achieve excellence in your HR role

HR Coffee Time

Show Notes

After completing your CIPD qualification, it can be hard to decide what training to invest in next. In this episode of HR Coffee Time, host Fay Wallis shares four valuable and perhaps surprising training options to help you develop skills that will elevate your HR career: mediation, coaching, negotiation, and facilitation. You’ll hear extracts from earlier episodes featuring expert guests who explain each skill and its benefits. Fay has personally attended training with all the featured experts, so she can confidently recommend their insights and advice. Whether you’re considering what to focus on for your professional development this year or just want to understand how these skills can help you, this episode is packed with ideas and inspiration to guide your next steps. Chapters From This Episode [00:00] Introduction and overview [03:38] Mediation skills with Pete Colby (Episode 99) [08:07] Coaching skills with Charlie Warshawski (Episode 53) [13:59] Negotiation skills with Simon Duncan (Episode 115) [21:23] Facilitation skills with Kirsty Lewis (Episode 110) [26:43] Closing thoughts Useful Links Connect with Fay on LinkedIn Fay’s website:Bright Sky Career Coaching The Essential HR Planner Inspiring HR Leadership Programme

Links & Resources Mentioned in The Episode Connect with Pete Colby on LinkedIn Connect with Charlie Warshawski on LinkedIn Connect with Simon Duncan on LinkedIn Connect with Kirsty Lewis on LinkedIn Mediation skills - Pete Colby’s website:Pragmatism Coaching skills - Charlie Warshawski’s website:Love Your Coaching Facilitation skills – Kirsty Lewis’ website:School of Facilitation Gartner’s Model of a World-Class CHRO The CIPD’s Profession Map

Other Relevant HR Coffee Time Episodes HR Coffee Time’s ‘Build Your Professional Skills’ Podcast Playlist Episode 99:How mediation skills can help you resolve conflict at work, with Pete Colby Episode 53:Why coaching skills can help your HR career (& how to develop them), with Charlie Warshawski Episode 110:Why facilitation skills can help your HR career & how to develop them, with Kirsty Lewis Episode 115:Why negotiation skills can help your HR career & how to develop them, with Simon Duncan Episode 130:Build managers’ confidence with ‘The Coaching Two-Step’, with Jude Sclater

Book Recommendations Shared on HR Coffee Time (Book links are Amazon affiliate links, which means Fay will receive a small commission from Amazon if you make a purchase through them). ‘Think Like a Coach: Empower your team through everyday conversations’ by Jude Sclater

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