Jillian on Love

From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi

Jillian on Love

Show Notes

What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think?

In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often without realizing it. We talk about what it actually means to take 100% responsibility for your past, how childhood experiences quietly shape the way you show up in conflict, and why avoiding hard conversations will always cost you connection. Dean shares the moment that changed everything for him—the shift from asking “what do I want in a partner?” to “who do I need to become to attract that?”

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