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Meet Dave Lukins Survivor. Father of twins. Dave first experienced abuse at the age of 7 in the toilets at school. Then again at 11 - 13 from a sports coach. He got so used to it happening, he expected it. He believes other boys were abused by the coach as well. When his son turned 7, the triggers began appearing, and the healing once it began, was to change his whole life. For more information, resources, or coaching — whether you are a survivor or a supporter, visit: handingtheshameback.org...
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Anke Richter Decult Founder and Director. Author. Journalist. Anke Richter is an award-winning international journalist, author and cult-awareness advocate in New Zealand. She is the founder and director of Decult, a charity focused on exposing coercive control and supporting people affected by cults and high-control groups. Anke is the author of Cult Trip: Inside the World of Coercion & Control. The Decult 2026 Voices of Courage Conference is being held on 24 and 25 October in Chr...
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