Practice Makes Parent

Lies That You Think Will Make You Happy

Practice Makes Parent

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The episode emphasizes authenticity, connections, and the importance of self-compassion in the parenting journey. Dr. Danny Huerta and Rebecca St. James explore the 'comparison trap' and how it impacts parents, with Kate Strickler, author of 'I Just Wish I Had a Bigger Kitchen.' They discuss the negative effects of constantly comparing oneself to others, the importance of contentment, and practical steps to shift mindsets towards gratitude. They also address how these issues manifest in family life and offer advice for building healthier perspectives. We also answer a listener's question about disciplining an impulsive child, providing strategies to support development of self-control.

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