The Calum Johnson Show

James Sexton: 3 Questions That Prevent F***ed Up Relationships & Why Weaponized Intimacy Destroys Love

The Calum Johnson Show

Show Notes

James Sexton has spent more than 25 years as a divorce lawyer, handling over thousands of cases. In this episode, he reveals why he still believes in love, the three questions couples should ask to prevent a divorce or breakup, and how relationships fall apart slowly, then all at once.

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Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:05 Why a divorce lawyer still believes in love 06:28 What divorce lawyers know about lasting relationships 12:31 The dark reality of marriage 19:33 The million-dollar divorce that destroyed a family 25:49 Do you want to be right or happy? 30:29 The 3 questions that can prevent divorce 33:40 Why we lose ourselves in relationships 57:42 The real reason we put on masks in relationships 01:06:42 How to feel worthy of love again 01:13:59 Why love is painfully simple 01:18:38 The dog that taught me to love again

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